Join Siewfan Wong for this free intro talk about fascinating system of the Enneagram.
An Introduction to the Enneagram
Thursday 7 March 2019
7.30 – 9.30 PM
The Enneagram is a useful framework for understanding who we are and what we are doing here. Rather than being just a tool that boxes us in, it takes us on a journey of revelation and transformation. The Enneagram helps us to understand our challenges and realise our full potential. It shows us a better way of being.
In this talk, Siewfan Wong will cover the following topics:
* What is the Enneagram and the basic concepts
* Why study the Enneagram
* How can we use it to our best advantage
* What is the best way of finding our type
* Enneagram Types quick tips
This series is for anyone interested in learning more about the Enneagram as well as a refresher for those who wish to sign up or have signed up for The Enneagram of Shadow and Virtues with Russ Hudson in May 2019. Siewfan Wong is very excited to host Russ Hudson, a leading scholar and teacher in the Enneagram world today, in Bangkok, Thailand and to have him in Asia for 2019.
About the Facilitator
Siewfan Wong is a founding member of Gallery Helios and DeepDive Coaching. She works with clients on emotional challenges, life transitions and personal growth. Siewfan is a long-time practitioner and student of Enneagram Inner Work in the Riso-Hudson tradition.
Russ Hudson is one of the principal scholars, leading teachers and innovative thinkers in the Enneagram world today. Co-founder of The Enneagram Institute, he is the co-author of best-selling books The Wisdom of the Enneagram, Personality Types, Understanding the Enneagram and Discovering Your Personality Type.
RH | The shadow is a concept that is generally seen as coming from the psychologist Carl Jung, who was a student of Freud. Simply put, the shadow is any aspect of ourself that we’re not aware of. So the idea is that most human beings, we are aware of some things about ourself, but there’s other parts of ourself we don’t know very well. Those could be certain feelings that are suppressed, or it could be motivations that we’re not aware of. Really, the parts of us that we’re not familiar with.
Sometimes, shadow is created by difficult childhood experiences. Painful emotions, or times where we were very scared or shocked, and so we can psychologically repress those kinds of experiences, but they are still influencing us. And you can know when that kind of shadow material is coming up because it can make us do impulsive things that we would not otherwise do, kind of hard to explain.
But you know, shadow material can also be positive things. Some people aren’t necessarily aware that they are happier or their life is better than they think it is.
So basically, most serious psychology, and I see the Enneagram as involved with serious psychology, is in some sense an investigation of shadow material. What about me do I not know about? If I already knew about it then, well, I could do something about it. But the Enneagram helps us see the parts of us that we don’t usually recognise, especially in the areas of motivation as I was saying.
PC |Many people talk about shadow work in psychology. How does the enneagram help?
RH | Well, it’s part of why, I think, the Enneagram is more effective but also not as popular as some tools because the Enneagram really is explicitly looking at shadow work.
When we talk about the passion of each type [of the Enneagram] related to the sins in terms of the Christian view of it, you know, envy and avarice and pride and gluttony and all these kinds of things, or the fixated view, the Enneagram is really helping us see both emotions or motivations that we’re not aware of, but also it’s helping us see how our perspective on ourselves and life is more limited than we would usually recognise.
When we have shadow material going on, we don’t know that our view is limited. And you know most of the time, for most human beings, our view is limited somewhat.
The Enneagram is helping us see how we’re limiting it. It’s helping us see some of the underlying emotions that we might be feeling or have covered over in some way. It’s helping us see motivations we might not initially recognise that we have. Things like working very hard for success because we want our parents to love us and approve of us. Probably when we’re working we’re not conscious of that motivation. But if we were to look deeper we’ll see it’s there.
So the Enneagram helps us to see what we’re really after, what we’re seeking, and also points to maybe better ways to get the things that we’re looking for on the deepest level.